Thursday, May 28, 2020
How to Make Career Success Your New Years Resolution
How to Make Career Success Your New Yearâs Resolution Every year around this time, many people approach the new year with a sense of optimism and determination, vowing to make a number of life changes and self-improvements. Healthy food is consumed, gym parking lots are full and everyone is at their best. Unfortunately, by late January, most have already fallen off the wagon and abandoned their new yearâs resolutions. According to a study by the University of Scranton, 92 percent of all new yearâs resolutions fail. How is it possible that so many good intentions can fall through the cracks? Psychology professor Peter Herman describes this as the âfalse hope syndrome.â Herman points out that most people fail because their resolutions arenât realistic. They underestimate the difficulty of the task and the time required to accomplish it. There are a number of approaches one can take that may not guarantee success, but can certainly increase the odds. Letâs look at a few tips that will help you achieve your resolutions and set you up for career success in the new year. Donât make resolutions you canât control Perhaps your new yearâs resolution is to get a promotion at work. Youâve been with the company for several years, gained the necessary skills and experience, and proven your interest and determination. Unfortunately, a part of this resolution is beyond your control. Maybe there are no current job openings. Maybe thereâs another candidate who is equally qualified, or perhaps more so. Maybe theyâll be offered the position, but they wonât be a good fit and it will be offered to you the following year. While itâs good to have career goals and continue to work toward them, hinging your resolution on something that is ultimately someone elseâs decision can leave you feeling a sense of failure, even though you did everything required to succeed. Donât bite off more than you can chew Just because itâs a new year and youâre looking to make some positive changes, presumably your everyday responsibilities wonât change. Youâll still have the same commitments you had last year â" to your wife or husband, to your kids, to your employer, to your friends. Therefore, keep these commitments in mind when making your resolutions, and try to keep them realistic. Instead of vowing to get a degree or a certification, start by just taking one class. Each small step will move you closer to your larger goal. Celebrate your success by reaching small goals â" donât regret your failure by not reaching big ones. Take baby steps Whatever your resolution may be, look at it with a micro view, not a macro one. Work small steps into your daily or weekly routine, and donât expect to knock out large portions at once. If your goal is to read a book about a new subject or for a course youâre taking, focus on reading one or two pages a night, not on finishing the book in a week or two. Thereâs nothing wrong with starting small, and if you find you have more time in your schedule than you anticipated, you can always increase your efforts. On the other hand, taking on too much to begin with will only cause stress and frustration, and will most likely leave you feeling overwhelmed and defeated. Set a realistic timeframe A common reason that new yearâs resolutions fail is the lack of an appropriate timeframe. Not setting a target date invites procrastination, and while there may be several months left in the year, an âIâll get to it when I have timeâ attitude can easily lead to unmet goals and feelings of failure. Likewise, setting a target date thatâs too soon can lead to similar frustration. Choose a date thatâs realistic for completing your resolution, and that will allow you to balance the extra work with your daily schedule. Once itâs set, hold yourself accountable. Ensure youâre taking the necessary steps on a regular basis to achieve your goal on the chosen date. While some resolutions may benefit from a partner who can hold you accountable (like a workout buddy), in the end, no one will celebrate your success or regret your failure more than you. Only choose goals that are important This sounds like a no-brainer, but some people feel they MUST have a new yearâs resolution or they just arenât improving. Thereâs really no shame in not having a resolution. Most resolutions fail simply because people just donât care enough to follow through. If itâs not something thatâs important to you, skip it this year and start thinking of a resolution for next year that youâre truly passionate about. Without willpower, determination and a meaningful goal, youâre setting yourself up for failure, which will only have a negative psychological effect on other aspects of your life. Any gambler will tell you that itâs better not to gamble when the odds arenât in your favor than to gamble and lose. Such is the case with new yearâs resolutions. While we can all learn from certain failures, thereâs nothing to be gained from talking about resolutions of years past that you werenât committed enough to see through. If youâre part of the nearly 50 percent of the population who typically makes new yearâs resolutions, choose a goal thatâs meaningful and attainable, with a realistic target date of completion. Then above all, hold yourself accountable for achieving it so you donât become one of the 92 percent who fail. By this time next year, youâll be looking to repeat this yearâs success instead of hoping to avoid another failed resolution attempt.
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